[Correcting Others = Reminding Ourselves]
When correcting the mistake of others, it is essentual that one's intention be to earn the pleasure if Allah & not to demonstrate one's superiority or to vent one's anger or to impress others.
We should deal with otherd in a realistic manner based on their knowledge of human nature which is subject to ignorance, negligence, shortcoming, whims & desires & forgetfulness.
Most important of all is to deal with others on a footing of compassion rather than harshness because the basic aim is to reform or remind so they will repent and not to punish. Remember, we ourselves commit mistakes too & we also hope that people will correct our mistakes out of compassion and not with hatred.
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